Greetings everyone,
I pray that you and your family are doing well and that this week's message provides you an opportunity to spend quality time with Christ and consider the effects these words may have on you, a member of your family, or someone you know.
Late Saturday night, I watched the movie "Malcom X". As I watched the movie I began to consider the issues that our society faced during the late 50s through the 60s. The same cycles of sin existed then and continue today. I am not focusing on the issues of race and color. My aim is to address the topics Malcolm spoke on regarding the lack of proper parenting, the lack of responsibility, the weakness in people who indulge in drugs, sexual immorality, etc. Although, he emphasized how Islam played a major role and was the only way for a society or community to rid itself of such actions, I want to share with you that there is a way out. I just would like to share with you that Christ, who still lives does provide a way for change. I continue acknowledge that in no way am I innocent of my past mistakes and experiences. I merely except that as I have accepted Christ as my personal Savior, that I had no choice but to change my behavior and my life.
On 4-12-12, USA Today, posted an article stating that "A growing number of firstborns in the USA have unmarried parents, reflecting dramatic increases since 2002 in births to cohabiting women, according to government figures out today. The percentage of first births to women living with a male partner jumped from 12% in 2002 to 22% in 2006-10 — an 83% increase. The percentage of cohabiting new fathers rose from 18% to 25%. The analysis, by the National Center for Health Statistics, is based on data collected from 2006 to 2010... The percentage of first births to cohabiting women tripled from 9% in 1985 to 27% for births from 2003 to 2010."
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/news/health/wellness/story/2012-04-10/CDC-marriage-cohabitation-children/54186600/1
On 3-12-15, The Wall Street Journal posted an article titled, "Sociologists fret that more children risk losing out on the economic benefits of living in married households" Please see below:
== BIRTHS IN THE PAST FIVE YEARS ==
1. Earnings of less-educated American men have fallen in recent decades, while education levels have risen among women, making marriage less attractive economically for women, research shows.
2. And while the vast majority of Americans say they eventually want to marry, according to a recent Gallup survey, many are finding the financial security they perceive as a prerequisite elusive.
3. Dawnyea Felton and Robert Cook, who will have their first child this year, are among the growing demographic choosing to cohabit but not planning to marry until they are financially and emotionally secure.
4. The couple lives in Baltimore with Ms. Felton’s mother and older sister. Ms. Felton, 19, plans to attend community college in the fall and become a nurse, after giving birth this summer. Robert, who is 20 years old, recently got a job at a nursing home where he earns $10 an hour.
5. While the couple’s pregnancy wasn’t planned, their families have been supportive, Ms. Felton said. “Right now, our main focus is getting established, getting our foot in the door,” she said.
6. In addition to young couples like Ms. Felton and Mr. Cook, a growing number of more educated middle- or lower-income Americans are choosing to become parents outside of marriage.
7. “The increases in nonmarital childbearing have been most pronounced for those having some college experience,” said Wendy Manning, a sociologist at Bowling Green State University, but the trend has “increased substantially between 1980 and 2013 regardless of maternal education.”
8. Over a quarter of births to women under 40 with some college were to cohabiting mothers in 2009-13, up from just 15% in 1997 to 2001, Ms. Manning’s analysis of CDC data shows.
9. It’s mostly white and Hispanic couples who are driving the trend, not black couples, experts say. Since the 1990s, the majority of unmarried births to white and Hispanic mothers have occurred in cohabiting unions, Ms. Manning finds, while the majority of nonmarital births to black mothers were to single mothers.
10. Affluent, highly educated Americans still largely marry before starting families, and single mothers remain more common among the poor.
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http://www.wsj.com/articles/cohabiting-parents-at-record-high-1426010894
Scripture teaches us that not only did such similar activity occur in biblical times, but it was to continue and get worse until Christ's return. I have found a series of scriptures from the New and Old Testament that point to our human behavior. Please note that there are no time limits on these words. God's word never changes and we must acknowledge that we should not desire for His Word to change with the times.
Deuteronomy 24:16 ESV /“Fathers shall not be put to death because of their children, nor shall children be put to death because of their fathers. Each one shall be put to death for his own sin.
Matthew 19:6 ESV / So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
1 Timothy 5:8 ESV / But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
Romans 12:1-2 ESV / I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
1 Corinthians 6:18 ESV / Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
1 Corinthians 7:1-8 ESV / Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ...
Genesis 2:24 ESV / Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
Revelation 21:8 ESV / But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”
Hebrews 12:8 ESV / If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons.
1 Corinthians 7:15 ESV / But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.
Ephesians 2:8 ESV / For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,
2 Corinthians 5:17 ESV / Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come
What do these words mean to you? Does God's word have any effect on your life and the daily choices you make? Whose fault is it, if you choose not to be obedient, yours, the government, or was it because of racism?